Today's Heartlift with Janell

Sometimes the story we tell ourselves is not really true. Sometimes the story others tell about us is not really true. On "Today's Heartlift with Jane…
Apr 5th, 2023 | 34:21

Is the Fear of Rejection Holding You Back? Part 2

How do you handle the rejections that Life brings? In Part 1 of my conversation with Jessica Van Roekel, author of "Reframing Rejection: How Looking Through a Different Lens Changes Everything," Jessica guides us through the four types of rejection: Perceived Rejection, Actual Rejection, Unintentional Rejection, and Intentional Rejection (ouch). In Part 2, she shares lessons from her life as a photographer and how "looking through a different lens changes everything." She shares the following:

  1. As a photographer, I get to choose what's in the frame. You might see a beautiful blade of grass with dew drops, but I know that just outside the blade of grass, is a pile of manure.
  2. We have a choice. What do we choose to see? The beautiful blade of grass or the manure?
  3. Will we let rejection boss us around?

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